Stop auditioning for a life you’re already qualified for.
For the woman who’s journaled, tapped and burned the sage, and is ready for the life she keeps visualising to actually show up. Love, the dream, or both.
Cerva Grove
You’re doing everything “right”, so why does it still feel like this?
You love your independence, and you still feel a deep ache of loneliness sometimes.
You’ve journaled, tapped, burned the sage and cut every cord going, and you’re still on the apps at 11pm having the same three conversations with the same three men in different fleeces.
There’s a dream shoved in a drawer somewhere, the business, the move, the book with your name on the cover, and every time you go near it the kids need feeding, the boiler’s playing up, and a little voice asks who you are to want that anyway.
And somewhere along the way you started wondering if the life you know is possible will ever actually become real.
Then
NowBeen there, cried in the car park, got the T-shirt.
The relationship I’d been in for twelve years was over, my son had just turned six, and the last time I’d been single, dating apps didn’t even exist. Suddenly I was thrown into a world of swiping, ghosting and “u up?” texts at midnight, wondering whether dating was even possible in your thirties with a kid in tow. Something underneath it all didn’t feel right, and I put it down to adjusting to being single again. In reality, I was already fighting for my life, and I didn’t even know it yet.
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“Starla helped me find myself again when I was at a really low point in my life… I to this day know that she helped me have the power to manifest my dream job. The person I was this time last year is just a shadow of who I am now.”
“Starla introduced me to EFT and ever since then, I’ve had the confidence to walk all by myself into a mall, sit at a café even, and enjoy my company… She has helped me reframe my negative belief systems and worries.”
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